28 Mar 2024 · 2 h 4 min
Books from John Gottman & Julie Gottman
“The Gottman Doctors: "Women Tend to Be More Unhappily Married", 96% Of Non-Cuddlers Have An Awful Sex Life & Why One Night Stands Are Dangerous!”
7 books mentioned
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The conversation
Relationship researchers John and Julie Gottman discuss their decades of research on what makes marriages succeed or fail. The episode covers conflict management, emotional connection, and practical skills for healthy relationships.
Talking points
- Attunement and bids for connection
- The four horsemen of relationship failure
- Repair attempts after arguments
- Emotional connection and sex life
- Cuddling and six-second kisses
- Gender roles in relationships
- Constructive conflict resolution