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29 Feb 2024 · 1 h 39 min

Books from Ramani Durvasula

“The Narcissism Doctor: "1 In 6 People Are Narcissists!", "Are Narcissists Better In Bed?", "Can A Narcissist Change? - Dr. Ramani Durvasula”

3 books mentioned

  1. Cover of It’s Not You
    Guest's book

    It’s Not You

    by Ramani Durvasula

    Ramani Durvasula · ~00:06:37

    Buy on Amazon
  2. Cover of "Don't You Know Who I Am?"
    Guest's book

    "Don't You Know Who I Am?"

    by Ramani Durvasula

    Ramani Durvasula · ~00:43:43

    Buy on Amazon
  3. Cover of Should I Stay or Should I Go
    Guest's book

    Should I Stay or Should I Go

    by Ramani Durvasula

    Ramani Durvasula · ~00:55:27

    Buy on Amazon

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The conversation

Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a clinical psychologist and professor, defines narcissism as a spectrum disorder affecting about 1 in 6 people. She explains its types, origins, and how to spot narcissists in relationships and workplaces. The episode covers whether narcissists can change and how to cope with them.

Talking points

  • Definition and spectrum of narcissism
  • Four types of narcissists
  • Prevalence and origins of narcissism
  • Social media as an amplifier
  • Narcissism and professional success
  • Gaslighting, projection, and the three R's
  • Narcissism in relationships and sex
  • Coping strategies and radical acceptance